Sunday, November 6, 2011

Boost Intimacy with Your Lady

So you and your significant other have been together for awhile and things are getting unexciting. Your sex life is in the dumps and you need to spice things up. But what must you and your wife do? Well there are a number of things that you can do, however you and your spouse must be imaginative and open. It takes 2 to tango, so your better half needs to be receptive to your ideas.

Everyone knows sex is different for most men and women. Males are visual, while females are more emotional so you have to consider things that will benefit from both of these facts. One thing you and your significant other can do is pretend to first meet each other. Have your lady dress up in a captivating outfit and go to a tavern. Afterward you come in after a couple of minutes and act like you don’t know each other. Afterward you roll play by first meeting and flirting with each other. You can have a few cocktails, maybe dinner and then take her to a nearby hotel room, if you have some cash to spend, and make a night of it.

Yet another thing you can do is to flirt with your lady all through the day. In the morning when you are both getting dressed for work, walk up to her and give her playful smacks on her rear-end. Say to her how much you find her eye-catching. Whisper something freakish in her ear. When you get to work, call her a few times throughout the day and tell her that you can’t concentrate on work, mainly because you’ve been thinking about having sex to her. Trust me, your wife will love the attention and look forward to laying it on you that same night.

In the event you have young children, tell your spouse that when she gets home with the children, to just take it easy, because you are going to prepare dinner and get the children ready for bed. After the children go to bed, get her a glass of wine and offer to give her a massage or draw a nice hot bath. Lots of women will really enjoy the help and will be fired up by this.

If your wife is open, you can rent an adult movie that isn’t too hardcore. Most women love romance, so you want a soft-core adult movie. This may get here juices flowing so you and her will have a amazing night in the bed.

One more thing to consider are sex gadgets (as an example realistic vibrators) and sexy nighties which can be easily purchased on-line or you may go together to a local sex toy retail store. You and your better half can scan websites or local stores to look for things that you both will benefit from. After purchasing them, you and her can build up some anticipation of when the goods will arrive if bought on-line. Maybe your lady can buy a captivating nurse costume and you can purchase a doctor’s ensemble to roll play a sexy encounter between the beautiful nurse and good-looking doctor.

Also you can shock your darling. Soon after taking a shower, come out unclothed or in a Speedo and do a sexy dance for her. She’ll absolutely adore it and think you are wild which is sure to lighten her up and get her juices flowing. You may then take her into the bathroom where you have a very hot bath waiting surrounded by candle lights with a bottle of wine and 2 wine glasses near by.

Having a healthy sex life will take work. You and your better half will have to put work into it since it can’s just happen on its own. With our stressful lifestyles where most husbands and wives have full-time careers and kids it’s problematic for couples to become romantic. It’s definitely not impossible; it just takes work and a commitment to make it work.